What I Do:
I show people how to become fearless so they can be, do, and have what they truly want, no matter what state they are in right now.
How I Do It:
I don’t actually do anything. I just show you the truth about who you are, what you can do, and how to heal yourself. I help you see through the stories you’ve been told. I help you navigate your own inner system and heal the parts of you that are ashamed, afraid, unlovable, too much, not enough, bad, and more. I show you how to heal yourself in three areas:
Heal your body If you want to be sexually appealing, be able to run and carry things without pulling a muscle, and not die early due to eating fast, chemical-filled food, I get you fit in three to six months steadily, healthily, and permanently.
Heal your mind. First, we stop the bleeding. That means any negative emotional spiral or chain of thoughts that leads you to do self-destructive things like binging/addiction. This drains a lot of time and energy and feeds shame so we first put a stop to it. Second, we cut the root. We go straight to the core, underlying root causes of harmful or debilitating behaviors such as fear of doing what you truly want/fear of being yourself, fear of speaking up, self-harm, self-sabotage, and all others by cutting the root causes: shame and fear themselves. We do this directly and quickly compared to most other methods. Like a surgeon using a scalpel made of loving energy. Third, we plant acorns (details in phase 3).
Return of Your True Self: We plant acorns, which are habits, philosophies, perspectives, and practices that will replace negative things like addiction and fear with beneficial things like courage and peace. You will learn to be present most of the time instead of being stuck in thought chains and spirals that are usually negative. You will enter a state of peace that is imperturbable regardless of external circumstances. Negative states like Depression, shame, guilt, fear, anger, etc. no longer happen at this stage. You may have moments of anger, annoyance, fear, or shame, but they are accepted and let go near-instantly.
Teaching Formats:
1-on-1 sessions: via Google Meet (video call), phone, or email
Class: via Google Meet. The BMS System is a three-month class taught through weekly lectures with weekly 1-on-1 sessions.
Corporate seminar: 1-2 hour lecture to schools, companies, and any organization.
Problems I help you solve quickly and healthily:
Depression
Weight loss
Bipolar
Self-sabotage (take 3 steps forward, then 20 steps back, stuck in this cycle)
All addictions (gaming, social media, eating, drugs, TV, etc.)
Sleep problems (can’t wake early, can’t sleep early, insufficient sleep)
Healthy eating
Creating beneficial habits
Ending life-long non-harmful habits
Finding your soul mate
Anger
Grief from a major loss
Fear of speaking to others, fear of being yourself, fear of anything and everything
The prison of Desire (shopping addiction, must have X or I won’t be happy)
Pride (easily offended or feeling disrespected)
Self doubt
Low self esteem
No confidence
Can’t speak up at work
Burnt out constantly / Can’t say no
Hopelessness
Any problem you have, I can help you solve. All problems and all parts of you are welcome here.